Hey,
A pretty female friend in her mid thirty's who's a tech savvy marketing rep started dating a guy she met randomly in Palm Beach FL but who she used to know at Villanova during college. He's a tall athletic lawyer originally from New Orleans. She thought he was perfect for a long term relationship because he was objectively good looking but acted shy with women and made good money but wasn't hung up on wealth.
They dated weekly and spoke every day for 2 months. He then took his mother on a vacation for a week out West and she didn't hear from him that week. She was curious about him so she went online and googled him. She quickly found him on a college basketball website blog where he wrote that he had bedded over 140 women but was now dating a Swedish model who he planned on marrying.
She cut and pasted the blog and emailed it to him asking for an explanation. He said that she was the women he was referring to (in disguise) but admitted that had slept with over 140 women. She really wants to have a long term relationship with him but is totally turned off by his sexual accomplishment. So let me ask you this. For having slept with over 140 women is this guy a hero or a zero?
8 comments:
the guy is a total zero...shady MF...I can understand if he was together with her for a longer time and they have discussed potentially spending the rest of their lives together...she should trust her gut feeling and let him go despite the fact she really wants a long term relationship.
Cass, if he has had 140 women, how many of them were long term relationsips? I think she needs to know. If 100 out of the 40 were long term, he must have started dating when he was a child.
Dump him he is eiter a sexual slut or gay and in the closet....trying to convice himself he isn't by being with so many women. She doesn't sound desperate....she needs to move on....too many cute/better guys out there.
I think a man's past sexual history should be left in the past. Personally, a man who slept around doesn't matter to me, but he should be discrete. If he needs to brag about it, that is undesireable. A man with sexual experience can be a great lover! He must, however, keep it to himself and be disease-free!!
Sounds like a selfish looser to me. How is this woman certain that he went to the Hamptons with his mom and not another lover...male or female? Besides, a man who has had so many women and no commitment might not be the settling down type. Sounds to me that Mr. Shy is really Mr. Womanizer!
Too many good men out there to link up with a looser!!!!!!!
This guy is a major player. Congrats to him on his conquests, I'm sure it was fun. But what an idiot to publicize it - he's obvioulsy incredibly insecure. The guys I know who have bedded this many chicks are not necessarily proud of it and certainly don't advertise it publicly.
He is like the King, just warming up!
140? 40? Who cares ?- but shes not the model on the blog thats for sure...He would be parading her all around his friends-cuz thats what men do. I am from the south and I will tell you that not being invited to meet his mother is a much bigger deal-thats how we southerners work-if mom doesnt approve-its on to the next-and moms probably gonna be fonder of the stay at home model that will pop out beautiful children...hes about that age anyway--kinda old for southerners who are married w 2 kids before 25...
Since she was happy she found a guy who wasn't "hung up on wealth" she's a gold digger. Woman want men like that so they can spoil themselves and not listen to the guy complain. Also, forget the 140 woman. As a guy gets older the count gets higher, a woman should not even ask the question, if she finds him attractive she should assume he's had a lot of woman all over him.
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